Attract Healthy
Relationships

Learn how to approach dating based on your attachment style
and recognize important signs to build healthy relationships.

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Who is this course for?

Are you tired of struggling with relationship after relationship? Fed up with feeling anxiety over whether your partner loves you? Or are you being too desperate for love and attention? This course is for those who want to break free from potential trauma loops and start attracting healthy relationships. 

What will you learn?

Learn the key to attracting and building healthy relationships based on attachment theory. You will develop a full understanding of the four attachment styles, where you fall among them as well as guidelines on how to attract the ideal relationship.

Attachment Master Class

How to attract and build healthy relationships

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1. Understand your attachment style

In order to help you understand how attachment influences relationships, we will provide you with examples of what secure and insecure attachment look like in couples.

After you get the hang of the basics, you will get to assess your own behavioral patterns in relationships. Find out your attachment style and learn about each of the four attachment styles in detail.

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2. How to heal insecure attachment

Healing attachment begins with healing your core self. In the course, you will get a series of exercises for improving your self-agency and self-esteem. The Ideal Parent Figures visualizations will be used for you to gain awareness of your state-of-mind and create a positive map of secure, intimate relationships.

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3. Relationship advice specific to your attachment style 

Dating rules can’t be one-size-fits-all. Make use of dating guidelines that are specific to your attachment style. Learn how to approach relationships and recognize important signs and red flags within them. We will also explain common dating patterns like ghosting, vetting, limerence, and more. 

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4. What to do if your partner has insecure attachment

If your relationship isn’t going well, this isn’t necessarily because of your attachment style. You might be with someone who has their own attachment issues.

It is important to understand the attachment style of the person you are with. You will learn how to date someone with insecure attachment, and how to deal with and help them overcome their attachment issues.

Learning Outcomes for Healthy Relationships

  • Distinguish between the four attachment styles and identify your own attachment style
  • Describe the causes and characteristics of each attachment style
  • Characterize how your attachment style influences your behavior in dating and relationships
  • Understand self development including self agency and self esteem
  • Train positive states of mind and metacognition
  • Reflect on your fears, beliefs, and behavioral patterns
  • Identify, understand, and manage your emotional triggers
  • Practice regulating your emotions
  • How to express and communicate your needs with your partner
  • Utilize a set of powerful exercises for healing attachment disturbances and cultivating secure attachment
  • Interpret how people you are dating or in a relationship with are operating out of their childhood in their adult life
  • Recognize when you are dating someone with an insecure attachment and adjust your approach accordingly
  • Beware of common patterns that insecurely attached people fall into
  • Feel more confident and secure in your relationships (or while dating) 

Skills gained:

 

Emotional Intelligence Emotion Regulation Secure Attachment Self-Development Self-Agency Self-Esteem

Metacognition Social Skills Relationship Skills Communication Skills Online Dating Skills 

 

Course Curriculum Overview

5 mins. Module 1: Introduction
  • Meet the faculty (0:45 video)
  • What is attachment? (2:09 video)
  • Why is attachment important? (1:53 video)
  • How this course will help me? (0:39 video)

 

31 mins. Module 2: How Attachment Style Affects our Relationships
  • Securely attached couples (3:33 video)
  • Insecurely attached couples (3:49 video)
  • Summary of the four attachment styles (24:26 video)
21 mins. Module 3: Understanding Dynamics of Attachment Styles

 

Topics covered in this module include:

  • Why do opposites attract with attachment styles (why do dismissive styles attract preoocupied styles)?
  • Learn how various attachment styles behave with each other in dating & relationships
  • Learn what common behaviors anxious / preoccupied attachment styles have that drive their partners away
  • Dating advice and clues for anxious / preoccupied attachment styles
  • How to avoid anxiety and problems during the first dates?
  • Why do people get into repeated relational patterns?
  • How can you prevent the feelings of guilt and resentment while dating or in relationships?
  • What is the ideal parent protocol?
  • Does love at first sight exist?
  • The importance of self assessing your attachment style
2 mins. Module 4: What is my Attachment Style?
  • Self diagnosing your attachment style
  • Overview of The Adult Attachment Interview (AAI)
5 mins. Module 5: Understanding my Attachment Style
  • Overview of Secure Attachment Style (2:11 video)
  • Overview of Anxious / Preoccupied Attachment Style (0:58 video)
  • Overview of Avoidant / Dismissive Attachment Style (0:48 video)
  • Overview of Disorganized Attachment Style (1:08)
97 mins. Module 6: Making the Change
  • Understanding your core self (5:22 video)
  • The false self (4:25 video)
  • The private self (2:27 video)
  • Incomplete self (4:16 video)
  • Core self visualization (10:05)
  • Self agency and self esteem (7:05 video)
  • Self agency visualization (11:35)
  • Self Esteem: in Dating Visualization (15:02)
  • Self Esteem: with Others Visualization (11:18)
  • Self Esteem: Skill Development Visualization (12:08)
  • Self Esteem: Way of Being Visualization (2:23)
  • Self Esteem: Best Sense of Self Visualization (12:31)
53 mins. Module 7: How does someone become secure?
  • Opposite attachment style behaviors / characteristics / triggers in dating and relationships (5:17)
  • How does someone become secure? (8:10)
  • Ideal Parent Figure Visualization (13:29)
  • Creating secure attachment visualization (17:08)
  • Secure intimacy visualization (9:11)
30 mins. Module 8: Disorganized Attachment Style
  • The Disorganized Attachment Style (4:49)
  • Dating and Relationships with a Disorganized Attachment Style (8:10)
  • Ideal Parent Figures visualization specifically for the disorganized attachment style (16:46)
62 mins. Module 9: Anxious / Preoccupied Attachment Style
  • Dating and relationships with anxious preoccupied attachment style (19:59)
  • Understanding triggers (4:48)
  • Managing symptoms (5:15)
  • Feeling secure
  • Ideal Parent Figure visualization for the anxious preoccupied attachment style (23:53)
  • Calming fear visualization (8:16)
44 mins. Module 10: Avoidant / Dismissive Attachment Style
  • Dating and relationships with avoidant / dismissive attachment style (5:24)
  • Understanding triggers (4:04)
  • Managing symptoms (11:46)
  • Feeling secure
  • Ideal Parent Figure visualization for the avoidant / dismissive attachment style (22:54)
30 mins. Module 11: Healing Yourself After a Breakup
  • Getting over a relationship protocol (2:10)
  • Relationship grief protocol version 2 (15:38)
  • Relationship grief protocol version 1 (12:42)
109 mins. Module 12: Dating with Insecure Attachment
  • Dating Guidelines (12 Minutes.)
  • Online Dating (24 Minutes)
  • Rules for Dating – Part 1: Clues (7 Minutes)
  • Rules for Dating – Part 2: Questions to Ask (11 Minutes)
  • Limerence (6 Minutes)
    • What is it?
    • What attachment style is most closely associated with this behavior?
  • Ghosting (6 Minutes)
    • Why do people ghost us while dating?
    • How can we avoid getting ghosted?
    • What attachment styles are more prone to ghosting?
  • Vetting (5 Minutes)
    • How to vet a dating partner
  • The 5 communication signs to take notice of on a first date (7 Minutes)
  • Red flags to beware of on a first date (19 Minutes)
  • Dating success stories (9 Minutes)
  • Gender differences and stereotypes that apply to attachment styles (3 Minutes)
29 mins. Module 13: Dating a Partner with Insecure Attachment
  • Understanding a partner with avoidant / dismissive attachment style (5:19)
  • Understanding a partner with avoidant / dismissive attachment style from an anxious / preoccupied perspective (5:19)
  • How to manage a partner who is avoidant / dismissive? (5:38)
  • How to date someone who is avoidant / dismissive? (4:54)
  • Understanding a partner with a disorganized attachment style (6:10)
  • An example of disorganized attachment in a relationship (2:19)
1 min. Module 14: Conclusion

Reminders and reflections for your next steps!

6 mins. BONUS: Advice for New Parents
  • Advice for New Parents to Raise a Secure Child (5:47)

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Course Faculty

Paula Sacks (pictured left)
  • Paula Sacks is a clinical social worker and an Attachment Specialist in a private practice.
  • Paula is a contributing author to the award-winning book Attachment Disturbances in Adults.
Dr. Caroline Baltzer (pictured right)
  • Caroline Baltzer is a clinical psychologist in a private practice and lecturer at Harvard Medical School.
  • Caroline is an Attachment Specialist and contributing author to Attachment Disturbances in Adults.

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Healthy Relationships Master Class

Faculty: Caroline Baltzer, PhD & Paula Sacks

Learning Outcomes:



  • Understand your attachment style and differentiate the 4 attachment styles

  • Learn the path to healing insecure attachment

  • How to get over your ex (includes visualization)

  • Red flags to beware of on a first date (plus more screening tips)

  • Discover behaviors you have that drive partners away from you

  • Get relationship advice specific to your attachment style

  • How to manage a partner who has insecure attachment


Course Includes:



  • Nearly 9 Hours of Lecture

  • 16 Guided Visualizations

  • 7 Day Money Back Guarantee


$57 ($97)

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Faculty: Daniel Brown, PhD, Caroline Baltzer, PhD & Paula Sacks, LICSW

Courses included:



  1. Relationship & Dating Attachment Class (Valued $97)

  2. Transforming Negative Emotions & Forgiveness (Valued $97)

  3. Intro to Attachment & Self Development (Valued $97)


You will get:



  • Over 14 Hours of Lecture

  • 28 Guided Visualizations

  • 2 Workbooks (Over 100 Pages)

  • 7 Day Money Back Guarantee

  • Access to some of the world’s leading attachment specialists and our award-winning treatment method.


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Expert psychologists are talking about our treatment

Diana Fosha, PhD

Author of “The Transforming Power of Affect” and Director of the AEDP Institute

Richly comprehensive, precise, and wise, it is honed by real clinical experience, with step-by-step treatment protocols tailored to each attachment classification. This book should be required reading for all graduate students in clinical programs, be they clinical psychology, psychiatry, counseling, or social work.

Dante Cicchetti, PhD

McKnight Presidential Chair, William Harris Professor of Child Development & Psychiatry

Rarely does a scholarly work contribute to the understanding of the processes underlying attachment and its dysfunction while simultaneously providing a clearly delineated prescription for treatment. Practitioners will profit from the detailed clinical vignettes and researchers will gain many ideas warranting empirical investigation.

Kathy Steele, MN, CS

Clinical Director, Metropolitan Counseling Services. Author of “Coping with Trauma-Related Dissociation”

Mental health professionals across disciplines will delight in the rich depth and breadth of this essential book, which seamlessly interweaves research, theory and treatment. Brown, Elliott and colleagues have written a tour de force that is surely destined to become an instant classic.

Onno van der Hart, PhD

Emeritus Professor of Psychopathology of Chronic Traumatization, Utrecht University

…An unequalled account of how far the attachment field has evolved since Bowlby’s groundbreaking studies of attachment bonds. It presents an outstanding, encyclopedic, and integrative overview of theoretical understanding, assessment, and treatment. All this leads to a highly inspirational and effective treatment model, consisting of three “pillars”.

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Your questions answered

Who is this course for?

The Relationships Master Class is aimed at the general public as complete guide to attachment disturbances and healthy relationships.

Does this course replace therapy?

This course is not a replacement for therapy. We highly recommend you work with a licensed mental health professional if you think you have an attachment disturbance.

How long does it take to complete the training?

This is a self-paced course that includes several hours of lectures and exercises to help with training secure attachment.  After the you complete the course, we recommend that you continue to practice the exercises regularly.

Are the course sessions live or pre-recorded?

The course videos are pre-recorded and there is a full inventory for your reference.

How do I access the course after purchasing it?

You will receive an email with all the relevant information to sign into our online learning portal.

Can I download the course to a computer or mobile device?

Once you have signed up for the course, you can download the complete transcript and workbook of the course on the “Welcome” page of the course.

To whom can I send feedback or suggestions?

We are always happy to receive suggestions to further improve the user experience. Please reach out to us. Be mindful that we cannot respond to every message individually, although we do read all of your emails.

What is your refund policy?

We unconditionally guarantee your satisfaction with all courses from The Attachment Project for up to 7 days. If one of our products fails to meet your expectation for any reason, simply contact us.

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